So my psychologist friend tells me one day about one of her patients, a small child. She works with kids and uses play as a method of communicating with them. “This kid”, she sighs, “drove me crazy”. “Session after session he just played Taki. Now, I am used to some kids mainly playing and not speaking, but this was too much. Comes in, lets me deal the cards, and plays the whole session.” “Last week I couldn’t stand this any longer and I asked him, “What is the matter? why do we play cards all the time? why only Taki?” “And what did he say? “ I ask her, “He stops playing, puts the cards down and looks at me for a long moment, he then says: “A person has to know how to play with the cards he gets”.